FIRST WEEK GEORGETOWN EXPERIENCE: THOSE WHO WANDER ARE LOST!

FIRST WEEK GEORGETOWN EXPERIENCE: THOSE WHO WANDER ARE LOST!

An infamous poem by J.R.R. Tolkien once said, “Not all who wander are lost.” Well, sometimes we all know that may not be the case. It’s been over a week since I arrived in the United States of America—Washington, D.C., to be precise. One week into this journey, I’ve cried as promised, gotten frustrated, and walked over two miles only to still end up lost in the end.
“Grace, welcome to America. They told you the roads here are paved with gold, and that money grows on trees, but aside from well-coordinated pavement and green vegetation, did you see any of those myths?” my auntie asked when she picked me up from the airport.
My reply: “Ahh, I knew those weren’t true.”

Adjusting hasn’t just been about finding my way around new streets—it’s also about finding comfort in the little things I took for granted back home. Nigerians pride ourselves on knowing how to cook, and honestly, that might be the one thing our country should truly boast about. Since arriving in America, eating out has been its own adventure—one that’s often left me disappointed.

Nothing tastes the same, whether it’s a full meal or just a simple snack. It’s almost as if every bite reminds me I’m far from home. Sometimes I wonder if the Food Channel set me up with false expectations all these years. Just like wandering unfamiliar streets, navigating American food has left me feeling a bit lost—and maybe even a little betrayed.

 
 Its one week into the game, I’ve cried as promised, gotten frustrated and walked over 2 miles to still get lost in the end. Tweet This

I finally made it to campus people, and goodness Georgetown University is a beauty. I had an insightful orientation organized for international student and should I say every resource person was helpful. No seniority here, can the church say Amen. People are ready to help and I don’t think anything prepares you for that. Something to note Georgetown University is a big school if you don’t have a map on your phone (which helps just a bit) you would get lost like I did.

 

Just when I thought every new experience here would leave me feeling a little lost or out of place, I finally caught a break. Meeting Ai Hui and Sarah was a highlight—they were incredibly welcoming to the department.

As luck would have it, that was also the day of the eclipse. It was exciting to meet other grad students who had already started the program; they were friendly, fun to be around, and quickly brought me into the loop on a few things.

For the first time since arriving, I felt a sense of camaraderie—and maybe, just maybe, the beginnings of finding my place in this new world.

Amidst all these new faces and experiences, I’m especially grateful for my Ghanaian friend—let’s call him Aka. Looking back, I realize that half of my achievements in the first week are thanks to his support. With his help, I finally found a place to stay close to campus (though I’ll wait until I move in to share all the details).

I’ve also managed to sort out my mobile communication, so I can honestly say I’m starting to make progress. Little by little, things are falling into place.

Learning how everything works in America isn’t exactly easy—it’s definitely not for the faint-hearted. I’ve wandered and gotten lost a few times, but I’m realizing it’s all part of the process, and it’s definitely doable. Thank you, by the way, for the congratulatory messages on my last post. Your encouragement means a lot as I keep finding my way. HERE  

Till next time on my grad series—leave your comments below; I truly appreciate them. Let me know what you’d like to read about next on this page. And here’s a fun fact before I go: did you know Georgetown has been in existence since 1789?

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10 Comments

  1. Zillah Yeyedu Waminaje
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    August 27, 2017 / 10:52 pm

    Grace Chimezie, I am proud of you. Remain strong, God is with you.

    • Grace Alex
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      August 31, 2017 / 7:03 am

      Thank you so much Zillah… I'm hanging in there

  2. Lade Ibikunle
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    August 28, 2017 / 10:22 am

    Congratulations darling. Glad to know you are doing fine

    • Grace Alex
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      August 31, 2017 / 7:45 am

      Thank you so much Omolade

  3. Unknown
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    August 29, 2017 / 9:06 am

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    • Grace Alex
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      August 31, 2017 / 7:46 am

      Thank you dear, will try to keep a weekly update on that

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    September 9, 2017 / 2:31 am

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  7. aw16
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    October 18, 2017 / 6:43 pm

    Welcome to D.C.! I just had a similar experience doing graduate school in Barcelona Spain and I know how tricky and sometimes frustrating it can be to navigate a new system. It sounds like you're off to a great start tho! Georgetown is a nice area (I actually work down there myself) and I know you'll love it. Best of wishes this semester!