A SINGLES GUIDE TO ENJOYING VALENTINE Day

Hello everyone, thanks for the birthday wishes, Y’all are the best. Valentines is already days away, and well if you’re single this is one of the dreaded moments or well not really. To me, when you really get into a relationship, you will miss the single days of going to bed with a light heart.
Ok let me get to the point, I’m sharing ways to enjoy your valentine as a single person and you have the opportunity to write down below how you plan to spend yours.



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SHOE: reneesignature
Gown :Nkay Couture

1.     Show
Love:
for the sake of the season, it will be great to show love to someone else
and it doesn’t have to be someone you’re romantically attached to (what am I
even saying you’re supposed to be single right?). Choose an orphanage, your
street kids, family or squad to show love to, it will surprise you how good you
will feel afterwards.


Don’t think about failed relationships: This is kind of difficult as everyone has their significant order with them or has an update about what love was shown them, but try as much as possible to distract yourself with a chore or something that can distract you. E.g. read, play game, watch movie, eat your favorite meal (food always work).
  
Invite other single friends over: hehe you’re not in this alone with this struggle to finding bae and you have to realize that other single people can make you feel better about your singleness.. y’all can go out for a picnic, choose an engaging topic to discuss or play matchmaking (you can sure find bae on valentines day).


Watch a Rom-Com: watching a romantic comedy can also brighten your day, it lessons, it makes you feel less depressed about not being loved and also gives you hope of being loved again.


Sleep: since I’ve been single for most of my adult conscious life, sleep has been my favorite thing to do on valentines day, I sleep through it all, sleep has a way of making you feel everything is alright don’t be awake and thinking of the what if’s and buts.


Realize Jesus Loves you: There is nothing more satisfying than realizing the depth of Gods love for you and I also love you…
 

What tips do you recommend?
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33 Comments

  1. Unknown
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    February 11, 2016 / 9:08 pm

    Grace you look so lovel . I am in love with your style and your pictures. Keep doing you hu .
    howmojistyledit.com

    • Grace Alex
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      February 13, 2016 / 8:54 am

      thanks love… you're so sweet media

    • Grace Alex
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      February 13, 2016 / 9:16 am

      thanks dear

  2. Anonymous
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    February 11, 2016 / 11:02 pm

    Gorgeous! I'm super glad it's on a sunday hehehee… asides church tho, I'll be visiting and helping less privileged kids. A lot of children are suffering so rather than patronize the "already rich guys" and make them richer, I'll help the less privileged. And you don't have to be single to do that.

    • Grace Alex
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      February 13, 2016 / 9:43 am

      hehe glad you'll lets share God's love

  3. Tobi
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    February 12, 2016 / 1:25 am

    I really love that colour, Grace. I think its hard not to think about failed relationships when you are watching a rom com if your single on Valentine's day tbh. But yh, this Valentine's, I'm going to church then stuffing my face with food till I'll pregnant with triplet food babies :p

    tobiadegbemi.com

    • Grace Alex
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      February 13, 2016 / 9:51 am

      aww you speak like you're heart broken.. hugs from this side and eat all you want

  4. Miss Teekay
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    February 12, 2016 / 4:19 am

    I love the dress. Nkay Couture is definitely here to stay. Pictures: Si Perfecto! What camera and lens do you make use of?

    • Grace Alex
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      February 13, 2016 / 9:52 am

      hehe yes it is.. I use a canon 600D and a 1.8 lens

  5. Lade Kehinde
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    February 12, 2016 / 6:39 am

    This dress is ohh so amazing whutt!!
    Toyinwithfashion.com

    • Grace Alex
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      February 13, 2016 / 9:52 am

      thanks love

  6. InMyLoop
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    February 12, 2016 / 7:04 am

    I am off to a spa party on Saturday and on Sunday, the "D-day", I will take a well-deserved long nap after church.

    • Grace Alex
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      February 13, 2016 / 9:53 am

      haha sleep to the next level

  7. Peachy👸🏼
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    February 12, 2016 / 8:03 am

    Gorgeous

  8. Peachy👸🏼
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    February 12, 2016 / 8:04 am

    Beautiful

    • Grace Alex
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      February 13, 2016 / 9:53 am

      thanks sis

    • Grace Alex
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      February 13, 2016 / 9:54 am

      thanks cassie

  9. Anonymous
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    February 12, 2016 / 12:40 pm

    Gorgeous!!! I'll be helping the less privileged kids in my area. That's aside going to church LOL. Let's help the less privileged around us instead of just patronizing the already wealthy guys and making them even richer this valentine season.

    • Grace Alex
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      February 13, 2016 / 9:56 am

      yay way to go..

    • Grace Alex
      Author
      February 13, 2016 / 9:57 am

      same here …sleeping into monday

  10. Ijenna Osuji
    Author
    February 13, 2016 / 9:03 am

    Nice!

    Also don't think back with nostalgia about past failed relationships. There's a reason they failed.

    Helping other people will also help to realize you are a privileged and blessed.

    Cute dress!

    Mira La Belle blog

    • Grace Alex
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      February 14, 2016 / 7:40 pm

      yay so true

  11. Unknown
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    February 13, 2016 / 10:01 am

    Lovely post Grace!
    Love should be shown daily x

    • Grace Alex
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      February 14, 2016 / 7:41 pm

      so true dear

  12. Unknown
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    February 13, 2016 / 11:42 am

    Grace thank you for thud, I have been dreading valentines day before now… Hence,I plan to do a lot of giving on that day to kids especially, then I'll just sleep through it all. I love this post so much, I had to put the link up on my IG bio (@damiology)

    • Grace Alex
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      February 14, 2016 / 7:42 pm

      yay thanks beautiful

  13. MELODY JACOB
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    February 13, 2016 / 12:01 pm

    nice tips

    • Grace Alex
      Author
      February 14, 2016 / 7:43 pm

      thanks love

  14. Beauty Fables
    Author
    February 13, 2016 / 2:17 pm

    Definitely some bright insights shared. Thank you Grace!

    TheBeautyPlanner

    • Grace Alex
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      February 14, 2016 / 7:43 pm

      thanks June