DEALING WITH PAIN AND INSECURITIES

 

Lately its been a lot of work getting myself together to do
any major task and its because I’m dealing with a lot of stress and pain and
its never too long before I get into that dark depressive phase that highlights
my insecurities.
I feel like I always push myself to doing the most, when it
comes to life decisions. To be honest I’ve never really viewed myself in the
positive light people do on a daily, Its really hard and whenever I do not
succeed at a task or project I set before me its difficult dealing with it. I
don’t know how to deal with failure, and that point I begin to judge myself and
see myself in a really terrible light.

People around me can sense that something is going on but my
cheerful nature makes it really difficult for them to point out what is really
wrong with me.
It’s a lot when you also don’t believe in your capabilities
and in a constant state of mind that the next person is better than you or sees
you less.
Everyday I’m learning new means to deal with this pain and
insecurities. For pain that is gotten from failure, I try to push myself to
winning at that same task again and in relationship I let them go.  I’m yet to get to the point where I can overcome
my insecurities and one of the major ones has to be loving myself so giving
advise on how to overcome that will be me telling you what I’m not doing.
I’ll say on days when you’re the happiest pen down how you feel in that
moment to remind yourself of who you are when you’re in a tough place. 
I’ll say on days when you’re the happiest pen down how you
feel in that moment to remind yourself of who you are when you’re in a tough
place.  I really do think I’m overtly
emotional but you see my blog is an open diary birthed from pain and on days
like this one I can’t shy away from writing down how I feel
OUTFIT
I’ve been on a denim spree the past few months, from skirts
to shorts to pants, to shirts you name it, tis had such an old school feel and
I decided to give it a modern twist
Shoe: Reneesignature
Glasses: Naysarudolf

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6 Comments

  1. Lade Ibikunle
    Author
    July 10, 2017 / 7:26 am

    Really beautiful post. weldone Grace. And your outfit is banging

    • Grace Alex
      Author
      July 14, 2017 / 12:24 am

      Thank you Omolade

  2. Ogunyemi Bukky
    Author
    July 17, 2017 / 8:51 pm

    Really love the vintage denim dress. Killing it as usual.

  3. Unknown
    Author
    July 19, 2017 / 1:35 am

    The best way to cope with life's anxieties is to take a step at a time. You're involved in a whole lot and it's amazing how you've maintained a balance and a cheerful attitude. I wish you all the very best and this dress is amazing I totally want it for myself.

    • Grace Alex
      Author
      August 19, 2017 / 8:39 am

      Thank you so much Wanshy, you're amazing

  4. Unknown
    Author
    July 21, 2017 / 6:24 pm

    Great post